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Effects Single Parenting Has On Children
from: Karlie BestlerThere are a variety of effects single parenting has on children. Some effects on children of single parenting are positive and some are negative. Overall, one can't judge a non-traditional household based only on positives and negatives because each household can be uniquely different. However, there are some single parenting studies that suggest that single parenting does have an effect on children due either to the absence of a father figure or other factors that accompany single parenting, such as single parenting poverty.
Good Effects
Before we get into the bad effects single parenting might have on children, it is good to note than many single parent households have positive effects on the children. If a single parent household was established by removing a spouse that was making the household environment hostile due to drugs, alcohol, or abuse, the children may feel relieved to be out of the situation and actually promote healthy growth.
Another positive effects single parenting can on the children is to make them more independent and self-reliant. The children grow up with a more practical outlook on life, determined to make their own way and survive. Children in single parent households tend to be more mature and seek to establish long-term relationships in the future.
Bad Effects
The bad effects single parenting can have on children range from emotional disturbances to cognitive deficiencies. A divorce or death of a spouse can produce feelings of abandonment or guilt. In the case of divorce, if the conflict continues between the spouses, the child can be torn between parents and may lie to one to please the other.
Then, of course, the truly bad effects of single parenting can be a lack of educational or economic opportunities for the child due to single parenting poverty. Single parenting affects kids where there is no same sex role models and the absent advice father mother parenting single leaves the child without a good role model. A lack of support systems for their continued care is another challenge parenting single. These effects of single parenting are complex and long lasting.
In this day and age, there are more and more households being established as single parent households. They don't all have to fall into the negative stereotypes, and learning the possible effects this can have on a child can only help in the long run.
Many of the factors that contribute to producing bad effects can be addressed through a good community support system. In addition, if a primary caregiver is aware of the possible effects a divorce or death can have on her children, he or she is better able to find the resources to help them meet those needs and overcome some of the obstacles and have a better life.
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